Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Sundays, Politics, and the Night Bus

This past Sunday was possibly one of the more relaxing days of my life (minus the having to speak in French part). In France on Sundays, everything closes down. EVERYTHING. A couple girls and I tried out one of two Protestant churches that morning and afterward, we went to find something to eat and there was nothing open! I thus returned home and ate lunch with my host family. We had a long, relaxing lunch and then the parents suggested we all go for a walk in the park. So we drove to a nearby park and walked around for close to an hour. It's been about fifty degrees here on average, so it was a bit chilly but everything here is so green! It's like spring in January and I'm loving it. Anyway, we took our walk and then we headed home. When we got home, we had tea and croissants in the living room. Then everybody brought what they wanted to do into the living room... for example, I knitted, the mom crocheted, the dad read, one sister drew, another sister played with her iPod touch, etc... After spending some time there, we ate dinner and then watched the news. Can you imagine if you spent every Sunday afternoon doing nothing but spending quality time with your family? This was keeping the Sabbath in every way possible! Perhaps, I will incorporate this into my family someday...

On Saturday night, we did a little shopping and went to see a movie. We actually ended up watching a French movie. It was called L'autre Cote du Lit with Sophie Marceau and Danny Boon. It was actually quite amusing and we were all very proud of ourselves for understanding the plot and for laughing at the right moments.

Monday, a few of us went to Monoprix to buy notebooks, groceries, etc... Monoprix is kind of the Meijer or Target of Nantes (except a bit smaller). However, we probably go to Monoprix three or four times a week. :) Anyway, we were standing in the cookie aisle minding our own business when an old, petit man approached us and asked us if we were American. We answered yes and he asked us what we thought of Barak Obama. So we smiled and said "Oh, well..." And before the words could even come out of our mouths, this man launched into a 15 minute lecture regarding American history and America as a nation. It was all I could do to keep nodding my head and saying "oui." He would ask us questions and then give us no time to respond. But he somehow dropped in names like Thomas Jefferson and Abraham Lincoln along with Barak Obama and George Bush. It was hard to tell whether he was disgruntled by America and her actions or if he respected us for the long way that we've come. I'm thinking more disgruntled because he was talking of the national debt at one point and kept using a French phrase meaning "It's aggravating." This man also had no concept of a personal bubble because he kept waving his finger in our faces to make his point. Anyway, I recall during our study abroad orientation someone telling us that when we went abroad, people would be interested in hearing our opinions on American politics. But I was certainly not expecting an American history lesson in the middle of the supermarket! It was a little amusing because other French people would walk by and hear what he was saying and they would shoot us sympathetic looks. :)

Last night (Tuesday), we had a Conversation Club here at the IES center. It was absolutely wonderful because for 45 minutes, we talked French and then for 45 minutes we talked English. Local students who are studying English join us for the evening and it's a really great opportunity to practice talking on both ends! Before that, we watched the Inaugration (called l'investiture here in France). Unfortunately, we were unable to get any American channels, so we watched the ceremony with French "voice-overs." I think I'm going to get on CNN later and watch it in English. After all this, we went to a local creperie for dinner. It was one of the most delicious meals I've had here thus far. A friend and I split a Brestoise crepe (ham and baked apples) and a Paysanne crepe (some sort of French cheese/ham combination). They were both delcious. We then enjoyed a chocolate crepe with ice cream. Sigh. Sometimes I love French food! There were so many of us at the creperie that we ended up getting done very late. Thus, I had my first experience taking the night bus. It was quite the experience to say the least. Fortunately, one of the girls from my program was with me. We had to wait for quite awhile to catch the bus we needed. While we were waiting, a very nice guy approached us and asked us if we were waiting for the night bus and he explained that we were waiting in the wrong place. He pointed us in the right direction, which was very nice of him (our guardian angel). Anyway, we then had a not-as-nice man approach us and ask us if we would like to join him and his friends for some “fun.” I immediately said “Non, merci” and he asked us if we were American (we must look and sound very American). The girl with me lied and told him we actually spoke Spanish and we didn’t know English (she actually speaks Spanish, so this was not a problem)! So he put a little puppy dog look on his face, took his cigarette in his hand, and blew us a kiss. How very kind of him. I never want to take the night bus again! I know I will have to, but I certainly hope I never have to take it by myself. There are some semi-sketchy people around late at night (as there would be in any big city).

Two more little cultural differences for you before I go:
First, the notebooks here are not lined like ours… they are graph paper. ALL of them! They don’t have your typical Five-Stars here (I’m not too fond of this difference… it messes with my handwriting).
Also, the keyboards here are different. For some reason I had no notion of different countries having different layouts of keyboards. I realize now that this makes a lot of sense. However, the “m” and the “a” and most of the symbols are out of place here and it’s quite difficult to type on the computers at the center. I look like a 7 year old just learning to type!

Love to all,
Madelyn

5 comments:

  1. You ate crepes without your french lunch buddies?? Sounds like you are having a great time :) Try and stay away from taking the night bus for a bit. Love you :)
    Sarah <3

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  2. Dear Madelyn, I just lost my first post so here I go again. Sometimes I hate computers!!! I'm babysitting for our youth pastor and so I have my new Mac and am using their wireless. It is so fast. What an incredible experience you are having!!! I love crepes. The computer keys would be a real trial. You are so brave! I would be freaking out. Brandi and T took a quick trip to Florida, Tara is doing well, Hannah has an ear infection and I just had my first colonoscopy. TMI? (Too much information?) Well, this second try is much shorter than the first one as the family has returned and I must head home. Stay safe. Watch out for those 'petit' old men. I certainly know better how to pray for you. I love you! Aunt G

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  3. Hey Madelyn! I'm so glad you are keeping a blog...I just got done reading all of your entries. Sounds like you had a very rough trip, but things are looking up now! I can't imagine having to speak French all day every day!! I'm so proud of you for taking this opportunity...it will be something you never forget! Please post pictures soon! You can download cool scrapbook like program at www.smilebox.com - once you've created a scrap book of pictures, you can easily download it to your blog - that's what Mike & I did when we went out West.
    I'm keeping you in my prayer!
    Love you,
    Brandi

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  4. HI MADELYN!!!!

    I wrote a long response to this post and then it got DELETED, of all things. I shall try to backtrack and remember exactly what I wrote down...here we go :D

    I am so glad you are having such an interesting French experience so far, it really makes me happy to know that you like it and that you're learning loads of French straight from the people there. I can't believe how well you seem to have adjusted to the pace of life and the food and the different customs! I really enjoyed reading your "America vs. France" comments because I remember thinking the same things. The keyboard was one of them (but then you become accustomed to it, and then upon returning to the States you'll find it amazing and frustrating that it's not QWERTY at the top, and relearn it all again, haha), Monoprix (which Evie and I went to weekly as well), lazy Sundays (ahhh how you should ENJOY that and milk it for all it's worth), the dogs (have you stumbled upon some ferocious, gang-representing ones yet?), the sketchy nightlife (I was terrified for you when I read that, but wow, way to handle the situation! Always better to be from somewhere else in Europe than from the U.S., I guess...), and the people's interest in American politics! It's crazy.
    I am so proud of you for picking up on the French, and quite envious that you are becoming so comfortable with it! I'm sure it's difficult (especially for the brain), but it's so good that you're surrounded by it 24/7. I can't wait for you to talk about your classes, too--haha, Traduction sounds like it shall be fun. You sound like you're living up the most genuine French experience you could possibly muster out of a couple of weeks! And as for the homesickness part, I do remember Joanna (from senior year French, I don't remember if you recall?) saying that after a month or so, it doesn't feel quite like an exciting vacation anymore and the homesickness might set in, but that's where you depend on your fellow study abroad students and your host family. Of course I have no experience to be able to claim what you can do, but your family sounds very cool so far in any case. Tell us more about what they're like--personalities, little things you've noticed about home life, etc! Is it like the French families that we've seen in videos in Vess's class? I'm so curious about the people...what are they usually like, apart from the few very kind folks who've helped you along the way?

    It sounds beautiful, the weather, the "spring in January" part, all of it. It sounds lovely. I wish I could've seen Chenonceau, too--how amazing! So cool, I wish I were there!

    KEEP UPDATING! I'm disproportionately excited to read about your experiences, by the way. Haha.

    P.S. Genuine chocolate croissants and crepes are the BEST.

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